敏姊追思會

惡耗傳來！不可思議，悲痛萬分。和翠芬、大維、大鵬哀悼傷議。由我代表在台灣親人出席火化及追思會。暫時不告訴96髙齡的母親大人。隨後通知了所有親人，每位親人都表示深切哀悼。

11月25日上午八時三十分到十一時三十分。我們在南昌路十普寺舉辦了頭七法會，由五位髙僧帶領我們頌経，祈福。大光翠芬又誠candice又齊又仁，大維雪松、大鵬NACY，甯凱冠妤、甯文陳宜家，都出席了。獻上了豐盛祭品，還包括你愛吃的杞子餅，麻將全套、等等。全程莊嚴肅穆

晚輩都給你叩首.。相信你在天之內靈必有感受。儀式結束我們共同吃了一頓素食。

敏姊呀！為什麼老天如此安排。從小你就是我們姚家的光彩、驕傲。小學全校的司儀，民族舞蹈代表。成績優良模範生。初中離家考上新竹女中，髙中考上北一女、又是運動健將，三鐵皇后。大學考上成功大學。求學道路平安順利。

父親大人黃埔軍校16期畢業一生戎馬，報效國家。1952年中校副團長退伍。在苗栗教育局任督學，母親大人在苗栗中國石油公司上班，一生含辛如苦栽培了我們五個兄弟姐妹。

敏姊呀！你是一個內心善良

反應快速，做事果斷，愛家

愛親人，對父母至孝，愛朋友的人。每年都回來探望母親及家人。都經常幫助我及兄弟。今後我們一定會經常思念你。

你的骨灰隨潮君安置。在苗栗的福祿壽生命園區家族牌位區。我們也會立一個牌位與父親大人及剛哥。一併安列，我們也會経常去祭拜。母親大人在生之年我們也會刻盡孝道。一定會安享晚年，你不用耽心。

敏姊呀！嗚呼哀哉！上天保佑你在天之靈。

思念你的弟弟大光及在台灣所有親人

2021年12月2日

Hello Everyone,

I am Dah-Miin's brother, Dah-Kuang. I am here on the behalf of Dah-Miin's Taiwan family. It is with deep sorrow that we have heard of Dah-Miin's passing away. In the midst of grief, my wife, Tsui-Fen, brothers, Dah-Wei and Dah-Peng and I got together to make decisions and discuss rituals that will be held in Taiwan. We have decided not to let our 96 year-old elderly mother know about this heartbreaking news. Each and every relatives in Taiwan are grieving and sends their condolences to Chao-Jun and family.

On November 25th, from 8:30am to 11:30am, we held a Tou Qi (First seven days) ritual at Nan Chang Road Shi Pu Temple. The ritual was conducted by five eminent monks, leading us in prayers and blessings for Dah-Miin. Every close relatives of Dah-Miins' attended the ritual. We honored her with offerings of her favorite persimmon cakes, a whole set of mahjong and fruits. The ritual was solemn and all of Dah-Miin's nieces and nephews kowtow to her. I believe Dah-Miin could sense our love and respect for her. After the ritual, we had a vegetarian meal.

My beloved sister Miin, you bring honor to our family. All of us are so proud of you. In elementary school, you were the emcee of the school, and the representative of the traditional folk dance group. You were the top of your class. You attended the best middle and high school, and was a star in sports too. You graduated from the National Cheng Kung University. Your academic achievements were excellent, and so were you as a person.

Our late father graduated from the Huangpu Military School. In 1952, he left the military service as the Deputy Regiment Commander of the Lieutenant Colonel and became a school inspector at the Miaoli Bureau of Education. My mother worked hard at the China National Petroleum Corporation in Miaoli. She nurtured and brought up five of us brothers and sister.

Dear Miin, you are a kind hearted person. You are decisive and quick on the uptake. You love your family and friends, and you are such a filial person. Every year you would travel to Taiwan to visit us and our mother. And you often would help your siblings. You will be in our hearts forever.

Chao-jun will take care of your ashes and we will have your memorial tablet placed next to our late father and late eldest brother, Dah-Gang, at Miaoli's Life Park. We will also take good care of mother, so hope that you will have a peace of mind. May God rest your soul in peace and give us the strength to bear this irreparable loss.

We miss you,

Your brother Dah-Kuang and all your Taiwan family.

2021/12/2